I will walk with you through the fire of releasing, cleansing and purging of all the masks, the lies you were taught, the trauma, the shame...all that you are not so that you can discover the beautiful, powerful infinite being that you are.

She deconstructs the beautiful personal restorative power of Forgiveness from the too-often bundled issues around Reconciliation, Restoration of Trust, and Absolution and sheds light on how these are separate issues. This deep truth exposes the reality that, when we allow them to be merged and conflated, we disempower ourselves and set ourselves up for abuse and a violation of our boundaries.

Almost universally, people tend to be far more judgmental towards their selves than others. It may not seem like it from the outside, but the judgmental attitudes and behaviors of others towards us so very often mask an extreme self-judgment, self-condemnation, and even self-hate.

Forgiveness is a personal cleansing process of clearing ourselves of the energy from a person or an experience. As long as we hold that energy within, it creates a toxicity that interferes with our own life experience and holds us back from personal development.

Each and every one of us who is willing to and does our own self examination, faces our own complicity and generational trauma as well…not from shame, but rather from the space of acknowledgement and healing…affects the collective.

I Feel...

The waves of love that are anguish, pouring from my eyes, till my heart is swimming in the salty storm...drowning

Life was not meant to revolve around past trauma, but that is precisely what society preaches. The existence of trauma is taken as a given, unalterable and unavoidable. We aren’t offered real solutions to the root problem. We are offered drugs to dull, techniques to cope, and topics to avoid.

We take on beliefs that are not ours. The voices in our heads are made up from the fears, praises, promised rewards, or punishments that will be granted now, or in the afterlife, depending on the beliefs of the generations and social norms that have come before us.

In these times of chaos, isolation and uncertainty it is even more important to feel at peace and safe in your body, grounded into the wisdom of who you are, and in integrity with your own authentic expression and purpose. 

When we truly forgive, it frees us! Forgiving someone does not automatically mean that we allow that person back into our lives in the same capacity they were before, or even at all.

There are many ways people allow lies to make them complacent…by believing the stories spun into webs of false hope, thinking things will change if they just be patient and wait a little longer…because someone tells them so.

This state of being held back by repressed emotions is true of all kinds of traumatic experiences, not just the loss of a loved one! It’s true when one has experienced abuse of any kind, physical, emotional, sexual and more.

Your body speaks the truth, whether you are aware of its messages or not.  It will speak to you in ways that are more and more insistent and painful in an attempt to bring you back into alignment with your truth and your soul’s purpose until you finally listen…or you die, having never truly lived!